The Parent's Role in Raising a Book Lover
Reading, just like eating and sleeping, is a lifelong act. We explore the parent's role in turning a child into a book lover, along with book conversation questions.
From the moment our child begins to walk and to form cause-and-effect relationships, if we do the book shopping and the act of reading together with them, we convey by "letting them sense it" that reading, just like eating and sleeping, is a lifelong act. In this article we explore the parent's role in turning a child into a book lover.
Consistency and Patience
In this natural process, reading must cease to be a "spare-time activity" for the child; the child should be able to give up other activities in order to read. For this, "parental consistency" is very important. A parent whose attitudes change from day to day and who slips into indifference cannot move beyond an inconsistent position with shaken authority. Discovering the child's field of interest takes time and patience; comments such as "silly" or "pointless" about the books they choose are a blow to this habit.
Book Conversation Questions
Listening with excitement to the books the child has chosen according to their interests, and even reading and discussing them together, is priceless. The following questions are, in fact, another way of saying "I care about you and about what you read":
What made Einstein Einstein was his reading habit; and the number of books Mustafa Kemal read came close to four thousand.
Goals and Regular Reading
To turn reading into a habit, "setting goals" and "reading regularly" are important. The child can list the books they will read within the month, set a time limit for each book, and motivate themselves with small goals such as "I will read at least one hour every evening". An act as valuable as reading is writing: summarizing the books that have been read strengthens comprehension and retention.
In brief
- Raising a book-loving child begins with the parent's consistency.
- Book conversations make the child feel valued.
- Setting goals and reading regularly make the habit lasting.
You can find ways to make a child love reading in our Do Not Just Say "Read!" article, and age-based book selection in this guide.
Frequently Asked Questions
What should I do if I do not like the book my child has chosen?
Respect their choice. Comments such as "silly" or "pointless" harm the love of reading; patience and support are the right attitude.
Is setting a reading goal useful?
Yes. Small, achievable goals (a certain time or number of pages per day) strengthen the habit of regular reading.
Why is writing important alongside reading?
Summarizing what has been read increases comprehension, interpretation and retention, and also provides a psychological release.
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